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Showing posts with label college experience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label college experience. Show all posts

Friday, November 7, 2014

PHight for PH......Karate Style!

By Tadesse Wondwosen, PHA Intern

    For our younger generation, living with Pulmonary Hypertension can present many challenges. Learning how to meet those challenges can be a drawn-out process. Faced with the normality of being young and aspiring, the younger PH population must also come to terms with being able to cope and manage their condition as well. We spoke with Shannon O’Donnell, an ambitious teen, as she shares her experience with fighting PH and living life to the fullest.
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PHA: Could you please introduce yourself and briefly explain your connection with PH to our readers?

Shannon O' Donnell: "Hi everyone my name is Shannon O’Donnell and I’m a pulmonary hypertension patient. I’m nineteen and I’ve had PH for thirteen years. I’m on the crono five pump for remodulin and also many oral medications and oxygen at night. I’m currently a karate teacher for mentally challenged children and will be competing in my first tournament in two weeks!"

 PHA: From my understanding, you are still in college? What school do you attend and what is your focus?

Shannon: "I attend Bunker Hill Community College in Charlestown, Mass. My major is pediatric radiology and I’m currently in the prerequisite stage of the program."

PHA: Being in college, what are some of the challenges (if any) that you face when keeping up with your PH?

Shannon: "Well I’ve had some issues with some of my professors who don’t always understand why I miss class or leave early, even if I tell them ahead of time."

 PHA: Being away from home, is there still a network of support between your family and friends?

Shannon: "My school doesn’t have dorms so I still have the luxury of living at home with my family who are constantly caring for me. Most of my friends have gone off to further schools; however I still received their love and support as well."

 PHA: Shannon, what would you say keeps you motivated in not having your PH define you?

Shannon: "Darren Criss (Blaine from glee) has this saying “There is nothing more bad-ass than being yourself.” And there’s also a lyric from Demi Lovato’s song Fire Starter, “I'm a bad-ass jumping off the moving train I'm a Jane Bond, putting all them guys to shame I'm a wild card, and I'm gonna steal your game you better watch out.” I do what I want and listen to what my body tells me. I just try to be myself no matter what." 
                                                                 
PHA: And lastly- what would your advice be in how the younger generation can live with PH and still be able to live normal lives?

Shannon: "Listen to your body and live how you want while still respecting your parents. And it’s okay to be the smartest person in science class. Go to junior and senior prom don’t let PH run your live because you have one life to live so let it go and have fun."

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

PH Goes To College: Part 2

By Becca Atherton


When I was just a few months old, my parents were told that I had only a 13% chance of living to the age of five. High school, Prom, getting my license and graduating high school were experienced my family never thought I’d get to experience – let alone college! But here I am today, twenty-one going to college, majoring in Psychology with a minor in Family/Marriage counseling. While going to college is an amazing experience that so many of us with PH thought we’d never get to have, there are some things about the experience that will be different for us than it would other college students.

The first PH conference I went to, I was just sixteen years old and I sat in on the ‘PH Goes to College’ panel, wanting to get some tips on how to deal with the stress of college and my disease at the same time. The students on that panel had some wonderful advice such as choosing classes later in the day so you’re not waking up super early, get in contact with disability services, e-mail your teachers before you meet them to tell them about yourself and not over-scheduling yourself when it comes to classes and after school activities. The only thing I wished had been different about the panel was their array of colleges. Everyone on that panel chose to go to a four year university – some even lived in dorms!

Seeing all these young adults up there, some going to Berkley and some even going to college out of state – it gave me unrealistic expectations for myself. I felt that if I went to community college that I wouldn’t be doing enough, that I wouldn’t be good enough. If they can go to a four year with PH, why can’t I?

PH and its symptoms are different from person to person. The amount of stress someone’s body can take is going to be different than yours. I had to remind myself that, and tell myself that at least I was going to college because there are some PH patients who can’t even get out of bed. So if you’re sitting there, thinking about going to college but not sure if you can handle the huge campus of a four year, I want you to know that community college is an option and it does not make you any less of a college student if you go.

Some of the best things about community colleges are its smaller campuses; so your classes won’t be too spread apart and the class sizes are smaller so your teacher will actually know you. When you get into a class of 500, the teacher isn’t going to know you or your health, which means, if you miss a day and need notes from that day, they probably won’t even realize you were gone. I was worried about dorm rooms in college. What if my roommates are up too late? Staying up late and not getting enough sleep has a tendency to put me in a tired mess when it comes to my PH.  What if my dorm mates got sick? I shouldn’t be around that. Staying at home was the option I chose and I don’t regret it for a minute. So I don’t get the ‘dorm experience’, I can just have my friends sleep over on the weekends if I want that.

One thing I noticed was how much cheaper it was than a four year. Sadly due to medical issues, I had to withdraw from classes last semester. Imagine paying all this money and then not even being able to finish the course? I lost money last semester, but not nearly as much as I could’ve.

Because my health was still a problem by the time this semester rolled around, I am taking this semester off and it kills me.  College makes me feel normal. I’d get up in the morning, get dressed and go to classes, hang out after school, come home and do homework. It gave me something to do and it made me feel like I was actually doing something with this life that my parents and I have fought so hard for. Sitting at home all day, not only is it boring but it makes me feel like I’m wasting the precious time that I have. I know that its not my fault and I know that it doesn’t make me some lazy person but I hate it when people ask me how classes are going because I have to answer with, “Oh I’m taking a semester off.” And I worry that I sound like one of those college kids who just got lazy or flunked out so they aren’t going to school this semester. If you are in this situation too, we have to remind ourselves that we are doing the best that we can. The standards for us are going to be a little different and there are going to be times when we have take breaks from college. Yes it means getting our degree later, but at least we are working towards it.

College can be a bit crazy and stressful, but it can also be so much fun. I’ve met a lot of great an amazing people through college and I’ve learned so much. I’ve had amazing experiences and gotten involved in a great club after school. (I did not do more than one club at a time due to stress and activity level). Just take it slow, remember that you don’t have to get everything done at once and that you’re on the right track.

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

PH Goes to College

Part I by Kiara Tatum


It’s August, which means its back to school time for students.  But when you have Pulmonary Hypertension, it can change the flow of the college experience.  Whether you are a commuter or live on campus, having PH and going to college is rough.  I had symptoms of PH while enrolled in college; however, I wasn't diagnosed until two years after graduation.  However, I know how difficult it was for me to get around the college campus and to balance the shortness of breath, fatigue, chest pains, and stress of the college course load as well as a social life with friends.  Here’s some helpful advice that might be helpful to you during your college days.

  1. For those living on campus or away from home, find a PH specialist that is near your college campus that you can turn to during a medical emergency.  However, you should be keeping in contact with your PH specialist from home since you will be returning home for doctor appointments and care while not in school.
  2. Go to the campus disability office or office of accommodations right away.  By going to the disability office you can find out what services are offered to students with disabilities and what your rights as a disabled student are, especially if you have to be hospitalized and will miss classes as well as need to make up exams, labs, or special assignments.  Make sure that the disability office has a copy of your necessary medical documentation on file.
  3. Let your professors know that you have Pulmonary Hypertension.  Explain to them that you may miss classes due to your illness.  However, you will inform them via email or voice mail, so that you can continue to keep up with your studies and assignments.  But you may need extra time to complete assignments if become hospitalized or have bad PH days.  
  4. Whether you live on campus or commute, be prepared for a medical emergency.  Keep the emergency documentation on the room refrigerator, keep in backpack, or even put on your cell phone.  And make sure the campus medical office has a copy of your medical records as well as wear a medical alert ID bracelet.
  5. Use your academic planner to keep track of not only of all your assignments and due dates, but of your medical appointments, medication reorders, and medical contact information.  This will help you be less stressed when trying to balance the college life with your medical world.
  6. Get email and cell phone number of at least one person from each of your classes that you contact and obtain a copy of notes and/or class assignments if you have to miss class. This will help you to stay caught up if you have to miss classes due to bad PH days or hospitalization.
  7. Stay in contact with your parents or caregiver.  This is especially important for those who will be attending college for away from home.  Those who love you should hear from you each and every day.  It can be a quick text if you’re busy, but they should know how you are feeling in regards to your PH and well being at school.  If you’re not doing well, then be honest and let them know that today wasn't such a good day and explain to them why. 
  8. Oxygen can be an asset when walking on a large college campus.  Getting around on the college campus can be difficult, so adding oxygen or using medical equipment like a scooter or motorized wheelchair can help you get around the campus with ease.
  9. Take good care of your physical and emotional needs especially if you live on campus and are away from home.  Always make sure that you take your medication as prescribed and use your coping tools to get through stressful times.  It’s great to have a social life, but keeping a good balance will help with the course workload and keep your body and mind less stressed.
  10. Know that it’s okay to say that you have to go home or that you have to drop a course.  Sometimes you will miss too much class due to hospitalizations or bad PH days and need to drop courses during the semester.  You may not always be able to keep caught up during that semester, so taking a leave may be necessary.  Just be okay with that decision and know that you can always go back next semester.  Even though you may feel angry and disappointed, stay motivated and positive.  You will get your degree, no matter if it takes you a little longer than someone without PH or a chronic illness.

Stay tune for PH Goes to College Part II.  Hear from the voices of current college students that are diagnosed with Pulmonary Hypertension.