Finding Your Voice

This year I’ve been learning a lot about finding my voice. Not my singing voice, that is reserved for solo car rides and the occasional group karaoke.  No, I mean my PH Voice. The voice that gives me the power to make a difference.

See, for the first year or so after diagnosis, I didn’t have much of a voice. I had a case of nausea from trying to deal with all the drama that PH brings, but wasn’t doing much about it. What could I do? I had this disease and it was supposed to side-line me before too long.

But then Generation Hope came along, and I realized that I had a lot of ideas of what I could do, and we as patients as a group could do, to make our experience (and ultimately then our outcome) with this disease better.

I found my gift is talking and writing. Other people have gifts in fundraising. Good for them, because while fundraising is the obvious way many people think of for making a difference, it isn’t my gift. And that’s okay, because we need people to put on incredible fundraisers and we need people like you to do… well, whatever it is you do.

So I started talking, and I didn’t shut up. Haven’t shut up, in fact. And the crazy thing is, people are listening. People at the PHA listen and when patients have ideas and wishes and hopes, they do everything they can to make them come true. Friends and family are listening. Because I’m talking, they better understand what PH is and some have stepped up to really do amazing things for our community. Even my state is listening, because I had a chance to go on Connecticut Public Radio and participate in an interview with Rev. White from PHA and Dr. Trow from Yale. 

You find your gift, you find your voice, and people sit up and pay attention.

What’s your gift? My sister is a hobby photographer, so she started Amharc Photography and donates a significant portion of her proceeds to PHA. My friend Sam is a nurse, and she donated her skill and know-how to help me write an article on talking to your kids about your disease. My phriend Kimberly has a gift of bringing people together. The facebook groups she’s started online have grown by leaps and bounds in a matter of months. My phriend Stu has the gift of networking. Want to know what’s happening in the PH Community? Who needs a helping hand or a round of applause? Ask Stu! Jack Stibbs has a gift for I don’t even know what exactly, but the man has raised over a million dollars for PH through his annual fundraiser, and that’s nothing short of amazing. Carl Hicks has the gift of compassion. Even after he lost his daughter Meghan last year, he continues to stand by us and fight.

I could go on and on naming people who knock me out on a daily basis with what they put in and accomplish for us. The people in our community are incredible, and if you’re a part of that, you have something incredible to offer too. What is it?